| A healthy lifestyle is essential once we reach | | | | there are many ways to eat healthier and take |
| Fabulously40, a lesson that many of us seem to be | | | | better care of ourselves, the secret is finding out |
| slow in learning. | | | | what works best for each individual. After trying |
| In our 20's and 30's, we could get away with bad | | | | countless diets and eating plans, I have discovered |
| food and lifestyle choices. If we didn't get eight hours | | | | that Weight Watchers works best for me. All I need |
| of sleep at night, it wasn't evident (at least not right | | | | to do is to make it a daily routine. For me, that |
| away). If we ate or drank too much for a whole | | | | means going to their meetings, having a workout |
| week, perhaps we added a pound or two, but not | | | | buddy, and being held accountable for everything |
| much more. And when decided to go on a diet, the | | | | that goes into my mouth. What prompted this |
| pounds seemed to melt away. So I ask you, what | | | | sudden revelation? |
| the heck happened? | | | | Every year I gain 10 pounds during the holiday |
| At 40+, it seems that anything we do that is not | | | | season, and every year I have to deal with the extra |
| appropriate to our age category takes an immediate | | | | weight after the holidays. This year, however, I |
| toll. I've always had a weight issue -- I would eat, | | | | managed to gain 10 pounds before the holidays even |
| gain weight, diet, lose weight, and then repeat the | | | | began, and it was downhill from there. Given that the |
| cycle -- only now it seems worse than ever. I don't | | | | pounds no longer come off as easily as they used to, |
| think there's a diet I haven't heard of, tried or | | | | the time had come to figure out what I need to do |
| attempted. | | | | in order to stay healthy and vibrant for myself and |
| Ironically, I've found that they all work as long as you | | | | my loved ones. |
| count your calories. Take in fewer calories than you | | | | Not long ago I scolded my dad to stop smoking and |
| burn each day and you will loose weight. The | | | | start taking care of himself. When he didn't |
| challenge, of course, is keeping the weight off. Had I | | | | immediately oblige, I called him selfish. I laid on the |
| found the answer to that age-old problem I would | | | | "Jewish guilt" hard and thick because, after all, if he |
| have been the most celebrated woman on the | | | | gets sick we children have to take care of him. If he |
| planet. | | | | chooses to get sick by being careless, that's selfish |
| Let's face it ladies, we live in a society that preaches | | | | and unfair. |
| that size 0 models are the most beautiful creatures | | | | So -- I am publicly announcing that from today |
| on earth. We hear it, we live it, and worst of all, we | | | | forward I will be very conscious of what I eat and |
| teach it to our children. I remember preaching to my | | | | how much I exercise. If I don't take care of myself |
| daughters to stop eating too much so they will not | | | | now, my kids will have to take care of me, which I |
| have my thighs, arms, or derriere. Find What Works | | | | do not find appealing. I want to be a "cool" grandma, |
| for You | | | | not an old and sick one. For this to happen, I need to |
| I have finally accepted the fact that as we age, we | | | | have a plan and stick to it. |
| need to take care of our bodies in a more attentive | | | | If you're a regular reader of my blog, you're probably |
| way. Like it or not, every extra piece of bread we | | | | cringing just about now. Another plan??? Just how |
| put in our mouths will end on our thighs, arms or | | | | many plans, programs and guidelines do we need to |
| somewhere in between. However, that doesn't make | | | | adhere to? I say as many as possible, as long as the |
| it any easier to say no to that freshly buttered | | | | outcome is a positive one. |
| croissant and dive into a plate of raw carrots and | | | | I call all of you to join me as I embark on the "health |
| broccoli instead. | | | | kick" at this special stage in my life. I will definitely |
| Recently, I came to the conclusion that although | | | | need your support getting there. |